GIRES (Gender Information Research and Education Society) e-learning resource

GIRES (Gender Information Research and Education Society) e-learning resource

Recently my attention was drawn to the following website: www.gires.org.uk.

This site refers to a training resource produced by GIRES (Gender Information Research and Education Society).

 

Background

Firstly, if you haven’t previously come across GIRES, let me explain who they are. GIRES consists, principally, of a husband and wife couple, Bernard & Terry Reed. Both are well educated, although not in the sciences. If they were perhaps they would be a little more cautious about their statements on transgender.

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The word ‘gender’ has been used until recently to mean the psychological & physical characteristics that distinguish male and female. And, often, still is. In recent years it has become common to replace the word ‘sex’ with the word ‘gender’. (Women’s rights groups began to popularise the use of the word ‘gender’ in this way.)

It is therefore difficult at times to know precisely in which context GIRES uses the term. Perhaps aware of this difficulty they are now increasingly using the term ‘gender variant’ which implies being different from the norm. In the way the term is used by GIRES it remains an oxymoron. The pre-supposition that gender is biologically determined is false.

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Information supplied by GIRES is deliberately misleading, presumably for ideological reasons, as the following comment by Dr Neil Whitehead aptly demonstrates.

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A research organisation it is not. An organisation that exists to present deliberately misleading information for ideological reasons, perhaps!

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The value of its role as an educational society must be seriously questioned.

A further comment

I have met with Bernard & Terry Reed on two occasions. At the first meeting they produced a power point presentation which outlined a series of scientific references which they claimed demonstrated conclusively that gender is biologically determined. I and a colleague who attended that meeting were instructed at the outset that questions were not permitted. Some years earlier I and the same colleague were involved in the producing of two separate publications that, based on sound scientific research, contradicted virtually all their power point assertions. Clearly GIRES research had not uncovered either publically available publication. Or, they deliberately chose to ignore them.

At the second meeting months later I strongly challenged the very premise on which they (GIRES) took their stand.

The meeting concluded on good terms, I believe. However, it has since become apparent that their position on transgender has not changed one iota.

Throughout the last 15 or 20 years it has not been unusual for me to be publically and privately vilified by members of the transgender community claiming that I am bigoted and unwilling to listen to reason. This is in spite of the fact that I have constantly used my best endeavours to understand truth and what science is saying about transgendered behaviours.

I can therefore only conclude that it is the transgender community and their misguided supporters, such as GIRES and others with their own vested interests who qualify to be called bigots.

Professional comments on GIRES e-learning resource

Neil Whitehead, Ph. D*

The training resource says that neither your sex characteristics nor your upbringing determine your gender identity. On the contrary, while they do not absolutely create gender identity, they do create it to a high degree.

The truth is that transgender is still a rare condition, and that sex characteristics and upbringing produce divalent gender identity to an extraordinarily high degree, and this characterises “determine” as the word is normally used. There is considerable evidence for this, hundreds of scientific papers dealing directly with the observed developmental psychology processes which lead to gender identity.

In contrast the most the (GIRES) authors can say is that there is considerable scientific evidence that gender identity is influenced before birth. The word “influenced” is quite weak and papers dealing with this hypothesis (not observations) are a handful, negligible compared with those examining post-natal factors. This is certainly not “considerable”.

The clear statement is made that we are born with gender identity. This is absolutely wrong. Researchers define gender identity as a consciously held idea. This idea simply does not exist in new borns. They do not even have a sense of a separate identity from their mother for months. The stages by which they acquire a sense of gender identity have been much investigated, and much of this like all children’s learning is from copying others of the same sex.

An alternative less clear interpretation of being “born with gender identity” is that we are inescapably destined to a particular gender identity, as this trait develops.

No academic of my acquaintance will say that gender identity is completely fixed prenatally and unchangeable thereafter. Rather they will say that all human traits are multifactorial, having very many influences from prenatal, family, society, developing physiological states through childhood and random experiential sources. Further there is considerable malleability and strong post natal influence can have a considerable effect. A girl subjected to bad sexual abuse may retreat from a gender identity of femininity to that of androgyny.

Saying we cannot change who we are inside, is contrary to human experience. The authors are laudably attempting to create precisely this change to dispel prejudice in the minds of their listeners, and such prejudicial beliefs can indeed change. But (as shown by twin studies) there is much stronger scientific evidence for innateness of prejudice in several fields than of innateness of gender identity!

The authors are pointing to the experiences of many who have not found it possible to change their gender identity, or to those who experienced conflict very early, as implicit evidence that change does not happen. But there is evidence available from those who have changed and contrary interview material could have been produced, as the authors are aware. In view of that, it is scientifically indefensible to assert that gender identity cannot change. The authors may not know that nearly 100 years ago the standard medical opinion was that alcoholism was incurable. The fact that so very many now routinely change shows how totally misleading it is to mistake great difficulty for impossibility.

It is a scientific impossibility to prove that change cannot happen, because there could always be somewhere some very skilled therapist who would have some successes, or new treatments might emerge. It is another example of the philosophical principle that it is impossible to prove a universal negative.

The DSM (Diagnostic & Statistics Manual) manuals classify GID (Gender Identity Disorder) as a mental illness. If the authors want to argue otherwise, their forum is certainly not a training course, but a scientific article in the Journal of Sexual Medicine or a related publication.

There may be many reasons for treating trans people with respect, but for the authors to invoke science in this way, implying that there is such a clear a consensus around their position that public policy inevitably follows, is totally incorrect and reprehensible.

(My bolding, italics and brackets.)

*Dr Whitehead has a multi-disciplinary, Ph.D. For forty years he has worked as a researcher for the New Zealand government and the United Nations. And, for two Japanese universities. He has some 30 published papers on this and related subjects.

Dr Whitehead’s website: www.mygenes.co.nz

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Mortality, morbidity and criminal rate amongst post-operative transsexuals

Mortality, Morbidity and Criminal Rate Amongst Post-operative TranssexualsInformation from a Danish Study published in March 2011.

The objective of the study was to estimate mortality, morbidity and criminal rate after surgical sex reassignment of transsexual persons.

Mortality, morbidity and criminal rate amongst post-operative transsexuals (PDF file).

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Controversial Therapy for Pre-Teen Transgender Patient Raises Questions

Tommy LobelA lesbian couple from California say their 11-year-old son Tommy wants to be a girl named Tammy. They are giving him hormone blockers that delay the onset of puberty – so he can have more time to decide if he wants to change his gender. Link to full story below.

Controversial Therapy for Pre-Teen Transgender Patient Raises Questions by Perry Chiaramonte, published October 17, 2011 by FoxNews.com.

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HIV Infection among Transgender People

CDC Centers for Disease Control and PreventionTransgender communities in the United States are among the groups at highest risk for HIV infection.

HIV Infection among Transgender People (CDC Centers for Disease Control and Prevention – Department of Health and Human Services, August 2011) (PDF file)

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Finding Comfort – A Testimony About Crossdressing.

We are all on a journey discovering ourselves, for me that journey involved a period of cross-dressing and finding comfort in the deep love of God.

When did it start? I recall painting my face with water colour paints and answering the back door to my best friend, I must have been around 8 I think. He said nothing – he probably didn’t notice. I remember a scout pageant of knights of old, and what we wore looked like a dress – I wore it again at home and it felt more like one. Then there were years of wearing clothing from my mother’s store of clothes she wore when she was young, and no longer wore, and clothes that people gave her.

I remember the years working out how to create a girl’s shape with many pairs of pants,  and the padding of socks and stockings under suitable undergarments, back in the 60′s they were boned and created to curve you quite effectively. Spending time creating,forming, making up and becoming a girl however briefly – became an addiction for me. Only for me, only once I ventured out in the garden, but was never seen by others. I would actively avoid being asked to dress as a girl in plays, but secretly thought I could do it better than those who did.

There was always a thrill in the risk of being found out, the frantic hiding in the toilet if mother came home early and gradually sneaking the clothes back. The pleasure when dressing up becoming linked to sexual feelings as adolescence progressed, reinforcing the desire and the satisfaction. What would it be like to be a girl? My relationship with real girls were not at all successful. I was a boy – yet confused seeking comfort inside?

Why did it start? – “If you had been a girl we would have called you Helen”, mother said. She had lost a daughter at the age of 4, my step sister, – somehow I tried to replace that daughter in an effort to make mother love me and not physically punish me as she did. Dad was quiet and said little especially when in a sulk, when there had been a falling out between Mum and Dad.

Mother said once – can I ask you something personal – I said no. Maybe she knew? I hoped nobody knew! it was my inner secret my inner shame. I remember in my teems worrying that if I had a drink I would reveal my secret – it didn’t happen. When I left for college at 18 the clothes were gone – I never brought any of my own – I used to borrow garments from the lodgings where I stayed – always returning them undetected. The cross-dressing always hidden. I had this dream of being dressed up and travelling in my car having changed on the way – I never had the courage to be seen and certainly not “come out” in any way.

The desires to dress up diminished in my mid 20′s and seemed to stop when I formed a stable relationship with my now wife in my late 20′s. I told her about my past habit and when I started to seriously explore having an active Christian faith I was introduced to the Christian Healing Ministry I told a Christian minister and for the find time felt that I had faced the fear with God. That seemed to be an important release – that is not to say it was entirely the end of the thoughts – at times I would take an avid interest in the underwear departments of stores or catalogues and in the clothes put aside for jumble sales. But I resisted wearing women’s clothing, only occasionally adapting my male outfits in some way.

Through many years, I’m in my late 50′s now, there seemed to have been a shame deep inside that clouded my personality. Through many times of Christian prayer ministry I have come now to accept that God accepts me and does not condemn me. When I have been aware of the deep love that Jesus has for me, I have been able release the pain that is inside. That pain of unfulfilled love from my mother and my attempt to win love through a false created self. I have seen how much the heavenly Father wants to show me the “Father love” which I did not demonstrably receive. I have come to know that I am an adopted son – my orphaned heart is being healed.

There are times when I forget the love and acceptance that is there – when my mind tries to run an old tape – the “enemy” wants me to feel worthless, outside hope, ashamed, and when you are involved in Christian Ministry as I am, that is not a route that can be followed. So I try to turn my thoughts to what is good and honourable and true. At some point the living God breaks in again – when I find Him, or rather He finds me, I feel restored, refound, knowing that only in Jesus am I completely free, as the hymn says, “His Grace has brought me safe thus far and grace will lead me home”.

If you have a Christian faith you may know of the Father’s love – if not I do pray that you will be helped to find it. I am still on a journey to find my true self – those early years made quite a mess. But thanks be to God who gives us the victory. Knowing you are loved can  bring you into a place of freedom and living hope and remove the years of shame. May God bless you in your journey.

Richard

(Richard – not his real name – is a Christian minister in the UK)

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Declaration of the Trans Rights Conference

The Declaration of the Trans Rights Conference (October 2009, Malta) with highlighted issues of concern.

Declaration of the Trans Rights Conference (PDF file)

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Are transsexual brains different?

By Neil Whitehead, Ph. D, Lower Hutt, New Zealand

The answer is probably yes, but not because of innateness. The altered brain microstructure is probably due to years of repetitive thinking, fantasy and preoccupation with body image.

Full article available here.

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Research re affirms traditional attitude to gender

Research Reaffirms Traditional Understanding of Gender – June 2011

By Lauren Funk NEW YORK, June 16 (C-FAM)Research Reaffirms Traditional Understanding of Gender

New research reaffirms that gender is grounded in the biology  of men and women, supporting the traditional understanding of gender agreed on by the international community.

UN delegates are receiving copies of the research at a time when debates about “gender identity” are heating up: member states are engaged in a contentious vote on the issue at the Human Rights Council this week and they are preparing for a battle on sexual orientation and gender identity during this fall’s General Assembly.

“The Psycopathology of Sex Reassignment Surgery,” a peer-reviewed article authored by Richard Fiztgibbons, Phillip Sutton, and Dale O’Leary, questions the medical and ethical implications of performing sexual reassignment surgery (SRS).  The authors approach the issue from the medical and biological perspective that human gender is a matter of genetic composition, explaining that “sexual identity is written on every cell of the body and can be determined through DNA testing.  It cannot be changed.”

The authors affirm that biological sex cannot change, and they renounce the concept of “gender identity,” or the idea that gender, as a social construct or personal perception, is separate from one’s biological sex.  Citing the work of psychoanalyst Charles Socarides, they explain that “there is no evidence that gender identity confusion – a gender identity contrary to anatomical structure- is inborn.”

The article acknowledges that there are genetic abnormalities that can cause discordance between genetic sex, hormone receptivity, and sexual organs.  However, those who seek SRS are virtually always genetically normal men and women with intact sexual and reproductive organs and hormone levels proper to their sex, the paper says.  In these cases, according to the authors, “when an adult who is normal in appearance and functioning believes there is something ugly or defective in their appearance that needs to be changed, it is clear that there is a psychological problem of some significance.”

The authors argue that individuals who claim to have a “gender identity” contrary to their anatomical and biological structure cannot resolve their issues through SRS.  Individuals who find it difficult to self-identify with their biological sex often suffer from more serious psychological problems, including depression, severe anxiety, masochism, self-hatred, narcissism, and the results of childhood sexual abuse and troubled family situations. These individuals experience social and sexual difficulties as a result of these disorders and negative experiences, not because they were born into the “wrong body,” the paper says.  Sexual reassignment surgery, because it proposes a surgical solution to deep psychological disorders, is categorically inappropriate – and thus medically and ethically unsound, according to the authors, and those individuals who undergo SRS continue to have “much the same problems with relationships, work, and emotions as before” their surgery.

The study discredits the “gender identity” as a social construct, and it reinforces international consensus that gender is defined “traditionally” as “men and women” in the context of society.

See  also Articles: Psychopathology of sex re-assignment surgery.

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Towards an understanding of transsexual behaviours.

Keith Tiller January 2010

‘…Homosexual activists have moved from seeking a right of privacy to demanding social approval for the gay lifestyle, equal status with the heterosexual family and even the legal right to exploit the sexual uncertainty of adolescents…Knowing how matters have turned out, would I have voted differently on any of these measures? I now see that we viewed them too narrowly. As a lawyer and indeed a politician who believed so strongly in the rule of law, I felt the prime considerations were that the law should be enforceable and its application fair to those who might run foul of it. But laws also have a symbolic significance: they are signposts to the way society is developing – and the way society envisages that it should develop. Moreover, taking all of the ‘liberal’ reforms of the sixties together they amount to more than their individual parts. They came to be seen as a radically new framework within which the younger generation would be expected to behave.’…

(Margaret Thatcher. Autobiography – ‘The Path to Power’. (1995 Harper Collins. p151)

1. Introduction.

In recent years public awareness of transgendered behaviours has increased dramatically. This has come about primarily as a result of deliberate and skilful campaigning that has mirrored the homosexual political agenda.

The homosexual agenda began to take shape in the mid sixties with isolated instances of individuals ‘coming out of the closet’ declaring themselves publicly to be homosexual or lesbian. Today, any attempt to present an alternative voice based on freedom of speech and truth is responded to aggressively with the aim of silencing any opposition.

Thirty or forty years ago there was little cohesion between homosexual and transgendered groups. For a time, the transgender agenda lingered behind the agenda of the homosexual lobby. Today, there is a successful political alliance between the two. The transgendered political agenda, although less overtly aggressive, has mirrored the homosexual political agenda achieving as much in a considerably smaller time frame.

The Transgender Council meeting in Berlin during May 2008 attracted 200+ participants, representing 83 groups from 38 countries.

An increasingly secularised society, spearheaded by the GLBT [Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transsexual) political lobby, openly challenges the authority of the Church with respect to their response to the issue of transgender. Any attempt by the Church to present an alternative, Biblically based, response to transgendered behaviour is likely to receive condemnation for being both bigoted and uninformed.

2. A brief review of the progress of the transgendered agenda.

In April 2000 the Home Office published the report of the Interdepartmental Working Group (IWG) on Transsexual People. The report contained submissions from a variety of persons, of which only two were deemed expert. One of the experts, Professor L Gooren from Amsterdam, pleaded for the acceptance of transsexuality as an intersex condition. Intersex conditions have demonstrable underlying biological cause (see below); transsexuality does not, a fact with which Gooren himself agreed. Medical authorities ridiculed the other expert witness statement.

Other submissions were largely anecdotal accounts of acceptance suggesting that there had occurred a fundamental shift in acceptance of transsexuality by society.

The Evangelical Alliance (E A) contributed a submission to the IWG. The E A had drawn together a small group of people who were well qualified in their respective fields to contribute to the IWG report.

The IWG wrote to the E A commending it for the quality of its submission and acknowledging that other submissions were largely anecdotal. However, the published report of the IWG contained no reference at all to the Evangelical Alliance submission.

The IWG report was subsequently presented as evidence in a case taken to the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg (Goodwin vs. the U.K.). In part, the Court concluded:

[a] Para 77 (…) The stress and alienation arising from discordance between the position in society assumed by the post-operative transsexual and the status imposed by law which refuses to recognise the change of gender cannot, in the Court’s view, be regarded as a minor inconvenience rising from formality. A conflict between social reality and law arises which places the transsexual in an anomalous position, in which he or she may experience feelings of vulnerability, humiliation and anxiety.

[b] Para 91. (…) the Court considers that society may reasonably be expected to tolerate a certain inconvenience to enable individuals to live in dignity and worth in accordance with the sexual identity chosen by them at great personal cost.

[c] The Court also concluded that ‘there was no conclusive finding as to the cause of transsexualism and, in particular, whether it is wholly psychological or associated with the physical differentiation of the brain’.

The unanimous judgement reversed earlier Court decisions all of which had been unfavourable to transsexuals.

Following publication of the Court decision in the British media some doctors responded with statements such as ‘the judgement was a victory for fantasy over reality’. Those doctors who were prepared at the time to take a public stance for truth and reality were berated from all over the world in a successful attempt to silence them.

The then Lord Chancellor (Lord Irvine) stated that he was: ‘persuaded by the Court’s view that ongoing scientific and medical debate as to the exact causes of the condition is of diminished relevance.’

In April 2005 the Gender Recognition Act came into effect. That Act, amongst other things, overturned nearly four decades of legal precedent (Corbett vs. Corbett) that the chromosomes determine sex, shortly after conception, and could not be altered by any subsequent recourse to surgery.

3. The present reality.

Today, as a result of the Gender Recognition Act, Britain has in effect legislation to allow ‘self determined’ gender identity that may be confirmed by a Gender Recognition Panel (GRP). The panel has been created by the Act. The need to have undergone sex reassignment surgery is not a pre-requisite for the issue of a new birth certificate by the GRP. In effect this allows a fully functioning male or female to be legally recognised as belonging to the opposite sex with a confirming birth certificate. Thus, it is said, the Act creates a legal fiction. In the twelve months to October 31st. 2009 the Gender Recognition Panel granted 2436 certificates with 82 pending. (source. General Register Office South Port.)

In May 2008 the Equality and Human Rights Commission commissioned the National Centre for Social Research (Nat Cent) to establish a clear picture of the recent and relevant evidence base on equality and discrimination in relation to transgendered people. Trans research review. (Autumn 2009 p iv)

“The project involved a comprehensive review of academic resources, ‘grey’ literature (non- published or non-peer reviewed) and policy documentation on trans and was conducted at the end of 2008 and early 2009.

The review identified a considerable body of literature produced for campaigning or lobbying purposes, including commentary on the legal position of trans people and discussion of experiences”. (p iv)

The review (P71) draws a number of conclusions, including:

1. There is no reasonably accurate estimate of the size of the transgendered population.

2. Most existing research has been conducted and funded by transgendered advocacy organisations. There are considerable problems inherent in studying the trans population.

The review makes no reference to the two Evangelical Alliance publications, which include substantial reporting of the available scientific literature. Nor to the considerable body of published (peer reviewed) literature that focuses on cause and the reports of successful interventions that have resulted in reversal of Gender Identity Disorder.

The review seems to assume as valid the common position of transgender advocacy groups that Gender Identity Disorder is
biologically determined. It appears therefore, that political activism has been allowed to trump science.

4. The scientific reality.

‘There is no evidence that any influence, biological or social, will inevitably create a transgender identity in a person. Evidence from twin studies further shows this will always be the case. No factor yet to be discovered will inevitably create such an identity.

There is no overwhelming scientific case about the inevitability of transgender or its development or its long-term stability. Assertions that there is consensus about the inevitability are merely wishful thinking.’2

Transgendered lobby groups have, over the last decade and a half, sought to justify their behaviours by appealing to alleged scientific research.

They have variously claimed that:

1.Transgender is an intersex condition.

2. An abnormality is located in a region of the brain known as the hypothalamus. (Specifically the BSTc area)

3. It is the result of a pre-natal abnormal hormone surge.

None of these claims have scientific merit.

1. Unlike intersex conditions, the transgender condition does not have an identifiable scientific cause.

2. In relation to the issue of an abnormality of the hypothalamus region of the brain, Neil Whitehead Ph D who has reviewed all the available scientific literature says:

‘However in all these studies, the well-known neuro-plasticity of the brain may be involved. Brain regions are well known to change in response to intense thought processes, which are certainly present in transgender. Any differences found are more probably the result of the brain activity rather than the differences causing the anatomical differences. The former is well known from many studies – the latter is mostly speculative.’ 2

3. In relation to the issue of pre-natal hormone surges he goes on to say the following:

‘Those who argue for prenatal influences (inevitably expressed) can only finally prove their case by longitudinal studies. That is, children must be followed for about 30 years from birth and their development monitored, and the entire social environment as well.

This has not been done, and is not likely to be done, because transgender is relatively uncommon, and to obtain a sufficient number of transgender people in the final sample (say 20) the sample size might need to approach half a million people. But until it is, the most likely explanation of any correlation of transgender with biological function or structure is some environmental influence.’2

Dr George Rekers, Distinguished Professor of Neuropsychiatry and Behavioural Science Emeritus at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine author of over one hundred scientific papers, published the first empirical treatment in 1974 demonstrating that GID in children and adolescents could be reversed.

A National Health Service (NHS) pamphlet entitled: ‘Transgender experiences – information and support for trans people, their families and healthcare staff’ published in 2009 states that ‘…gender dysphoria is not a mental illness. Gender Dysphoria is a recognised condition for which medical treatment is appropriate in some cases. This condition is increasingly understood to have its origins before birth…..’

The Diagnostic & Statistics Manual (DSM) V is due to be published in 2012. The Lesbian Gay and Bisexual (LGB) community want all sexuality related matters to be declared non pathological. That would remove Gender Identity Disorder from the manual. Ironically the transgender community is opposed as a diagnosis of mental illness is, in some cases, all that allows their operations.

5. The Biblical Position.

When transgendered behaviours emerge in a church there is often a startled reaction. Some members are quite hostile, others confused and a host of questions are generated and asked.

The church leadership are likely to be uncertain as to how to respond. The basic question is “what does the Bible have to say on the matter?” The usual cursory exploration is unlikely to reveal God’s heart on the matter – or does it?

The primary verse in the Bible that appears to address the issue of transgendered behaviours is Genesis Chapter. 1. vs. 26 and 27. (NIV)

(vs 26)The God said, “Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let him rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground”.

(vs 27) So God created man in his own image, and the image of God he created him: male and female he created them.

Jesus confirms God’s created intent in Mark, Chapter 10.

(vs 6) “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female. (Vs.7) For this reason man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife.

Deut: 22. 5 ‘A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing for the Lord your God detests any one does this. A complimentary position that upholds God’s creative intent as stated in Genesis.

Transgendered people will often say that, ‘I must have this mistake corrected’ and also to insist on a personal right to act out the preferred gender role. Compulsive pursuit of what is thus rebelliously envied is destructive to relationships

A desire to live deceiving one’s self and others, by acting out in an assumed gender role, even if only for a short time, is ultimately a form of gender hatred. The gender hatred is likely to have developed in early childhood as a response to traumatic events and should be taken seriously. The transgendered frequently state – even non-Christians – that God has made a mistake.

Many male transvestites and transsexuals are, or have been, married and fathered children. Separation frequently occurs and isolation from the family follows as they are generally no longer accepted within the family or socially in their preferred, that is self-determined, gender role. Alienation from society in general encourages the development of special interest groups. These “special groups” claim that a post-modern society must embrace them and Christians are seen to be hostile to their worldview.

In most cases children (including adult children) of a transgendered individual want a father and mother who present and act according to society’s behavioural norms. Hence the children may be scared and traumatised and in turn their own lifestyle may well become dependent upon some form of behaviour which is detrimental to them.

We have a relational God whose concern is for wholesome Christ centred relationships. The Bible lays down firm guidelines for family structures yet increasingly these structures are being challenged by contemporary society. Pursuing transgendered behaviour alienates one from God.

Today women commonly wear jeans, slacks and suits that, apart from cut, appear little different from male attire. A decade ago they would have been wearing skirts or dresses. The clothes that women in particular and men wear can change quite dramatically in a relatively short period of time. Climate can also have a bearing in a warm climate both males and females are less likely to wear jeans or long trousers.What is perhaps important is the individual motivation for deliberately wearing clothing popular with the opposite sex.

6. The Church Reality.

In regard to developing an appropriate Christian response to both homosexual and transgender behaviours Dr Andrew Goddard has noted:

‘That consensus in both theory and practice is being questioned or even collapsing in many denominations, local churches and Christian networks. Existing church structures are under threat like never before.’3

7. Overcoming.

Romans Chapter 1 gives a clear expression of God’s willingness to honour our free will. We have been freed to go our own way, but there will be consequences if we deviate from our “design criteria.” This is a fundamental creational truth that society increasingly rejects. Paul tells us in Romans 1:25 “…we have exchanged the truth of God for a lie…”

Overcoming transgendered behaviours is often directly related to one’s willingness to enter into an ever-closer relationship with God. A personal, obedient, trusting relationship with Him is necessary in achieving a more wholesome lifestyle. Obedience to a Biblical statute alone will not bring about sexual wholeness. (Jer.31: 33-34)

Transgendered people are deeply wounded people, regardless of how mature they can outwardly seem. Wounded people have a deep sense of shame. Addictive behaviours have roots into shame. Transgendered behaviour is addictive and fuelled by shame. Fantasy is an indicator of the level of addiction. Acting out the fantasy by hopefully ‘depositing’ oneself into a different body with a pain-free existence, can create immense distress.

To build an intimate relationship with God by wounded people takes time. (Eze.36: 25-27) The place to begin to nurture such an intimate relationship with the Lord is within the church.

The “acting out” of transgendered behaviours will be cyclical and can be identified. When there is sufficient motivation present an individual can be quick to recognise this cycle of behaviour in their lives – if – they are serious in wanting to overcome the behaviour.

For others the behaviour becomes a false comfort that they have come to know and rely upon when relationship deficits in their lives occur. The risk and uncertainty involved in surrendering their dependence on this false comfort and taking up his cross, as Jesus put it, will often be unacceptable. When we give up a fixed behaviour pattern we experience loss. This loss has to be grieved in the same way as we grieve the loss of a person, or position, or country. Until a personal relationship with the Lord is established there will be resistance.

For males sex re-assignment surgery which may have included; mamma augmentation, vaginoplasty, facial surgery, voice adapting surgery, and body contouring and electrolysis for beard treatment, as hormone treatment does not remove a beard.

Females are often prepared to undergo mammaplasty (breast reduction) as well as extensive hormone therapy. Such treatment is, nevertheless, merely cosmetic and can only produce an approximation of the new gender.

For the transgendered resuming original gender identity will involve acceptance by the male that surgery to satisfactorily replace removed primary sex organs is of limited value and that hormone replacement will continue for the rest of his life. For the female who has had considerable exposure to male sex hormones and developed male facial and body hair and a receding hairline, reversal will be slow. She may have to undertake prolonged and painful electrolysis.

Some people who have undergone SRS subsequently become Christian and decide to resume their original biological sex and may go on to marry. If they are male they will not be able to conceive children and are likely to incur difficulties if they seek to adopt. The overcoming pathway will, for all concerned, be fraught with difficulties. Successful therapy will include total dependence on God’s mercy and grace. The recovery, or sanctification, pathway may be littered with so many obstacles which may impair the receptivity to God’s grace.

As the Holy Spirit guides the journey out of shame and into wholeness the transgendered person will need the on going support and understanding of a caring Christian community, willing to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit.

Jesus was fully prepared to meet people “where they are at”. So should we, if we hope to restore the transgendered to sexual wholeness. In the third chapter of John’s gospel we see a picture of Jesus meeting with a Pharisee – a well-educated religious leader. In the next chapter we see Him meeting with a Samaritan woman – Samaritans being despised by the Jews. In the eighth chapter we see Jesus meeting with someone legally condemned by the law for adultery. Rather than run from Jesus they all appear to be drawn to Him. We need to look to His example to guide us in ministry to the gender confused.

1. ‘Gender Recognition A Guide for Churches to the Gender Recognition Act (U.K.).’ Evangelical Alliance & Parakaleo Ministry. Jan2006. P27.

2. N. E. Whitehead. PhD Personal correspondence and unpublished report April 2009

3. Rev. A. Goddard. PhD ‘Elevating the conversation: Christians discussing homosexuality’ Aug. 2009

8. Glossary

· Drag Queen: Usually a male homosexual who for theatrical purposes caricatures women. Away from the stage such performers are usually content to resume their male gender role. (The term ‘drag’ arises from Elizabethan theatre. Then, women were not allowed to perform on stage. Female parts were played by young males who ‘dragged’ the heavy female costumes – sometimes with small wheels attached – across the stage.)

· Gender: The psychological and social characteristics that indicate to one’s self, and to others, that an individual is either male or female

· Gender Identity Disorder: Gender Identity Disorder (GID) and Gender Dysphoria are clinical terms used to describe the psychological condition experienced by people who refer to themselves as ‘transsexual’ or ‘transgendered’. Such clinical terms are more accurate as they imply that the issue is one of self-perceived identity, which is confirmed by the weight of objective medical opinion

· Gender Reassignment Surgery: Also referred to as sex reassignment surgery. (SRS). Gender reassignment surgery refers to a range of radical surgical operations designed to conform the body superficially to that of the opposite biological sex

· Homosexuality: The physical and or emotional attraction (not necessarily acted upon) to persons of the opposite sex. Few male homosexuals are confused about their (male) gender identity. Ambivalent gender identity is more common amongst female homosexuals (lesbians). Few male homosexuals are attracted to transgendered persons.

· Intersex: Unlike transsexuality, intersex refers to a number of rare medical conditions where physical sexual ambiguity exists at birth or develops later. Some intersex conditions may not be evident until puberty. Intersex conditions are not the same as transsexuality. Intersex conditions result from chromosomal disorders.

· Sex: The biological difference between male and female, which is determined shortly after conception and usually confirmed at birth by observation.

· Trans: Trans man: Trans woman: Terms used within the lifestyle that refer, usually, to individuals living in their assumed gender role.

· Transgender: Interchangeable with transsexual.

· Transsexual: Refers to the usually self-diagnosed condition of a transsexual or transgendered person. Such a person is an apparently biologically normal person who, as a result of personal identity crisis, has an overwhelming desire to be identified as a member of the opposite sex. Commonly, they have the conviction that they have been born into the wrong body.

· Transvestite: Transvestism (cross dressing) is the wearing of the clothing of the opposite sex, usually by men, often resulting in sexual arousal.

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